Collateral
The rock is emotionless.
It’s out there, existing. It doesn’t change because of our feelings or desires.
Like the floor beneath the dancer, a blacksmith’s hammer or thermodynamics laws.
It won’t change its shape or respond to complaints. It won’t flinch.
The changing entities are within our bodies: fingers, shoulders, tendons.
With enough repetitions, they become stronger.
Mixed with patience, goals are achievable. That’s a good compromise but it’s not the best one.
The truly fulfilling skill comes as a realization at a given point in the path of habit.
As more of a “Oh OK, I can do this” rather than “Hooray, I just did this.”
The best kind of gratification is a realization in the middle of a recurring process.
A second-hand effect. A collateral of enjoying an acquired habit.